Why Learning French as an Adult is So Challenging? Tips and Strategies for Success

Adult language learning differs from that of childhood. While children pick up languages effortlessly, adults juggle a variety of responsibilities and may have fewer opportunities for immersive learning. It is essential to dispel the misconception that children's books are easier; they can present difficulties because of the complexity of the themes and vocabulary.

It can also be difficult to grasp the nuances of a native speaker's intuition. French grammar and syntax are often second nature to native speakers, which makes it difficult for them to explain their linguistic choices. Understanding this discrepancy is essential for adult learners striving to become fluent.

Starting to learn French as an adult is an adventure full of enthusiasm, anticipation and, inevitably, challenges. While the fascination of mastering a new language is undeniable, the road to proficiency is often marked by challenges that can test even the most determined learners. In this comprehensive guide, I'll explore the common difficulties faced by adult learners of French and provide practical strategies for overcoming them.

1. Lack of speaking French practice

You are too busy and manage your life in English or another language. You can only immerse yourself in French language by using the app or influencers on social media. Free courses and apps are useful, but they're not enough to become independent in the use of the language and often offer little opportunity for conversational practice.

→ Look for real-life situations in which to speak French, for example by joining conversation groups or engaging with native speakers, and ideally take courses tailored to your needs and situation (good timing, we've got just what you need at UpYourFrench 😉).

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2. Fear of making mistakes when speaking French

Fear of making mistakes can hold back progress in learning a language.

→ Remember that making mistakes is part of the learning journey; focus on communication rather than perfection.

3. Lack of self-confidence about your ability to speak French

It's perfectly normal to feel unsettled, especially when speaking with native speakers.

→ Boost your confidence by reusing structures you've learnt, recognising your progress and getting out of your comfort zone.

And don't forget that boosting your confidence in French is UpYourFrench's specialty.

4. Not being able to find the answer to your question

Accept that your French friends don't necessarily have the answer to your question. For a native speaker, a sentence is correct because it sounds right. But for you, nothing sounds right or wrong. Be aware that a native French speaker (who is not a teacher of French as a foreign language) does not always fully understand the challenges of learning their mother tongue (a bit like you with your mother tongue, isn't it?).

→ Seek advice from qualified trainers who can provide you with tailor-made strategies and support.

5. Take the time you need to learn French as an adult

Learning a language takes time and perseverance. Don't expect to speak like a French person after 6 months (or even after 5 years in reality... but I'll tell you about that in a later article).

Two or three years is not enough to acquire a good command of the language, especially if your mother tongue is far from French.

→ Keep practising regularly and be patient with yourself. Don't forget to look at the progress you've already made in French!

In conclusion, embarking on learning French or any language as an adult is an exciting adventure but one that requires investment, perseverance and a positive attitude to overcome obstacles. By recognising and overcoming the challenges of language acquisition as an adult, you can discover the richness of the French language and deepen your connection with its vibrant culture.

To improve your French skills, you need to practise regularly and build your confidence. Take advantage of the resources available, such as courses, apps and conversations with native speakers. With regular practice, progress is within reach.

With each step you take, mastery of the language becomes more attainable, but to stay motivated, remember to also look at how far you've already come.

Here some expressions you can use to start a discussion with a French person:

Dans une file d'attente :

- Vous attendez depuis longtemps ? Have you been waiting for a long time?

- Vous venez souvent ici ? Do you come here often?

- Vous savez si ça va être long ? Do you know if it's going to take a long time?

Avec d'autres parents à la sortie de l'école :

- Bonjour, je suis le papa de... / la maman de ....

Hello, I'm the dad of... / the mom of....

- Je m'appelle ..... Votre enfant est dans la même classe que mon fils / ma fille.

My name is.... Is your child in the same class as my son / daughter?

- Vous habitez dans le quartier ?

Do you live in the neighborhood?

En attendant le bus :

- Bonjour, vous attendez le bus .... aussi ?

Hello, are you waiting for the bus to.... as well?

- Est-ce que vous savez si le bus ... est déjà passé ?

Do you know if the bus to.... has already passed?

- Vous savez à quelle heure il arrive ?

Do you know what time it arrives?

- Vous savez quel bus il faut prendre pour aller....?

Do you know which bus to take to go to....?

Un renseignement à un point info :

- Bonjour, je cherche ....

Hello, I'm looking for....

- Vous savez où je peux trouver ..... ?

Do you know where I can find....?

- Comment on fait pour ...

How do I....?

I hope these tips will help you overcome your fears and understand how to progress by making the most of your environment.

Tell me in the comments which advice you find the most useful.